MrsGulp

Thursday 30 May 2013

Thoughts From A Rainy Day

On Wednesday I attended the Born in Bradford annual Teddy Bears picnic in Lister Park.
It's an event I always try to get to where possible and as Play Champion and a mother of three small children I was determined to be there.
However, the grey skies turned into a downpour and the picnic was rained off half way through. I don't think the children present really minded the rain so much but the exhibits and stalls were getting soaked and even a hardened British mother wouldn't eat a picnic in the rain.

As we were stood getting soaked, watching the drama (there was a giant bear and a magician) which the children were loving, it occurred to me that there is absolutely nowhere in Bradford that offers a large capacity covered event space for a variety of styles of events. Sadly, in Bradford we're at the mercy of the weather and small venues.

We're attracting large events and therefore we need to think larger.

For several years running great events held outdoors have been either cancelled due to adverse weather, stopped early or not had the numbers of visitors which the events deserve. Events such as Curry Week, Bradford Festival and Positive Bradford to name a few.

Also if anyone wanted to put on an annual conference which every year gets bigger and bigger and is already running at full capacity there is nowhere in central Bradford to go.

I've come to the conclusion that our local economy needs a very large covered event space in as central a location as possible.

Perhaps the former Odeon cinema building should be redeveloped with such needs in mind. I envision a seated space around a central arena (which could be filled with temporary seats as and when needed to increase capacity) under a sunroof style dome. This could be blacked out with blinds if necessary or let light in to give outdoor natural light, where temporary stalls could be set up for events like Positive Bradford or a Born in Bradford picnic etc. There could also be a large foyer space with permanent shops/stalls similar to the MEN Arena (in Manchester) for food outlets and other shopping / merchandise appropriate for the events.

I really hope that someone or a group with the necessary financial backing will have the vision necessary to do this for the sake of our regular large scale conferences and events. I'd do it if I had the money. We need Bradford to think bigger.

In the meantime however, the cancelled picnic gave me the opportunity to rediscover the delights of the art gallery in Cartwright Hall. There were loads of things on for the children too. They got to make peg dolls and do some drawings. I also got to show my daughter my favourite painting - The Egyptian Feast, and she was suitably impressed.

We ended up having to eat our picnic in the car though!

Saturday 25 May 2013

Seven Years On

I don't want to offend anyone but I always find it slightly odd when the family of a person who's died regularly make special trips to the grave on the deceased persons birthday, at Christmases and so on.  I don't mean the ones immediately after but the ones several years on.  It's almost as if they're still struggling with the reality that the deceased has gone.  A person who's died is no longer part of this world.  It's the memories of that person which we carry with us.  I would suggest that without exception each one of those people who've died would want their family members to honour their memory by living well.

When we live well, achieving great things where possible, marrying, having great relationships, having children and raising them well, and taking forward what we've learned from our deceased family member, we do more to honour their memory.

Having said all of the above, today, I've awoken thinking about my little son Joshua who was born 7 years ago.

I've been so amazed at how my life has changed over this last 7 years. I've tried to focus on having a great marriage, positioning myself to focus on life not death ( I moved from being a probate solicitor to working for a charity), having subsequent children, each one of whom is an incredible gift from God and I've tried to focus on trying to serve my community to make the world a better place for all of us.

My thoughts today are not sadness at his death but gratitude that in and through his death I've had the opportunity to experience the amazing sweetness of the Grace of God in my life and have a zest for life that honours his existence.

However today you won't find me doing anything special specifically for him. I'm not camped up on the metaphorical graveside of a little boy who's died. I'm busy focussing on the life of those around me who are still living. Today is his Grandfathers birthday so we'll celebrate that. Tomorrow is my nieces 1st birthday so we'll celebrate that.

I'm also going to be out doing some Labour party campaigning listening to the needs, hopes and dreams of the people on the doorstep.

I will give a thought to my beautiful Oma whose birthday is also today. She would have been 98. And a thought to Joshua.

Those thoughts are more about carrying something of what I've learned through their existence in my life and celebrating that my life has changed and moved forward than any sadness or loss.

I'm blessed to be alive and the sun is shining.